It’s Time – How My Eye-Opening Experience With Rightsizing Might Help You

Although I was only in my early 60s, in 2021 I decided it was the right time to downsize (rightsize), to sell my home of many years and to live in a place that was a lot more manageable. As with so many people, isolating during the pandemic really changed my priorities, and my gut was telling me that it was time to sell my home. But, after living in my home for so many years, I absolutely had no idea where to begin.
I’ve worked at Franke Tobey Jones for fifteen years and have seen so many people considering a move here that are in my same boat. “What do I do with all my stuff? No one seems to want it.” Now I TOTALLY understand what they are saying. I didn’t even want all my stuff and still didn’t know where to begin.
Many people simply can’t face rightsizing and moving because it’s so overwhelming. Eventually an “event” such as a fall or injury, difficulty managing daily activities, loss of a spouse or significant other, health complications, wandering or getting lost, unsafe living conditions, and so on may forces them to move…and that’s not a good situation to be in. It’s much better to rightsize when you’re able to make all your own decisions about what you want to keep and give away, where you want to move, and so on.
I began to downsize in February 2021, sold my home in July 2021 and started renting a condo in August 2021. When I look back, I remember how much work it was, but I am so happy I took the leap! It was totally worth it and incredibly freeing to let go of so much stuff that had been accumulating over the years. Stuff I never used or never even saw anymore. After I purged the first closet or two, it became so much easier, and I actually began enjoying “letting go!” I gave away, sold or repurposed over 4,000 items including most of my furniture, dishes, clothing and so much more. Releasing all these items gave me the fresh new start that I needed.
Because I could only bring the items that meant the most to me, now I am always surrounded by everything that I love and cherished memories! Along with my repurposed furniture, I purchased a few new smaller pieces of furniture, new dishes, new curtains and went from a “country” theme in my home to a “modern uptown” look. I absolutely love it!
Depending on your goals, downsizing your home can be the right move at any stage of life. You may find purchasing a smaller home makes the most sense, or possibly moving to a senior community where you can cook (or not), socialize with lots of people (or not), have fitness opportunities practically at your doorstep, and a place to start creating many new friends and memories.
Benefits of Rightsizing
Although I know the thought of rightsizing and moving is daunting, if you can keep focused on the benefits it might help you through the process.
- Reduced Home Maintenance: No more upkeep like mowing the lawn and fixing leaky faucets. You’ll have time to focus on hobbies, socializing and relaxation.
- Financial Predictability: Streamlined expenses with combining housing, utilities, meals and other costs into one predictable monthly payment. And, lower costs without unexpected repair bills or property taxes associated with maintaining a larger home.
- Enhanced Safety and Security: Access to on-site staff and emergency response systems provides peace of mind for residents and their families. Also, communities are designed with safety in mind, including features like grab bars, well-lit paths, and step-free living spaces.
- Access to Amenities and Activities: Enjoy a packed calendar of events, clubs, and outings that encourage connection and fun. Many communities offer fitness centers, libraries, salons and other amenities within walking distance.
- Health and Wellness Support: Stay active with group classes, walking clubs or personal training tailored to seniors. Moreover, on-site health services and partnerships with healthcare providers ensure ongoing wellness.
- Simplified Living: Downsizing allows seniors to focus on the belongings that truly matter, creating a more organized and peaceful living space. With fewer responsibilities, you can enjoy travel or time with family without worrying about home upkeep.
- Built-In Social Connections: Meet neighbors with similar interests and build meaningful relationships. Avoid the loneliness often associated with aging in place by living in a vibrant, social environment.
- Peace of Mind for Families: Families can rest easy knowing their loved ones are in a safe and supportive environment. If additional care is needed in the future, many communities offer seamless access to higher levels of care.
- Proximity to Attractions: Many communities are located near shopping, parks, cultural sites and other attractions that enrich residents’ lives.
Why Choose Franke Tobey Jones?
We specialize in creating a welcoming, vibrant and supportive environment tailored to your needs. With stunning views of Puget Sound and Mt Rainier, access to a 700-acre park with gardens, Senior University, expansive fitness program, interesting and unique Holistic Wellness Program, Resident Garden, FTJ offers unparalleled natural beauty alongside top-tier amenities and care.
Schedule a Tour
Discover how downsizing and moving to our community can transform your lifestyle. Schedule a tour today and take the first step toward a brighter, simpler future. Call us at 253-752-6621 or schedule a tour here https://www.franketobeyjones.com/contact/schedule-a-tour/
Resources
Here is the booklet I created regarding my rightsizing experience. I’ve included many tips and tricks I used while rightsizing. https://www.franketobeyjones.com/is-it-time-to-downsize/
Also, you may want to take this survey to see if it’s the right time for you to rightsize. https://www.franketobeyjones.com/is-it-time-to-downsize/
Happy Rightsizing!