Best Sex Ever After Menopause

By Christine Hall

Bremerton’s 80-Year-Old Dr. Carol Remz Empowers Post-Menopausal Women to Reclaim Sexual Pleasure and Passion with her new book “Best Sex Ever After Menopause.”

Who says the best sex of your life can’t happen after 60, 70—or even 80? Dr. Carol Remz, an 80-year-old grandmother, breast cancer survivor, and unapologetic champion of senior sexuality, is rewriting the rules of passion with her book Best Sex Ever After Menopause. While perimenopause and menopause are increasingly discussed, the sexual health needs of post-menopausal women are often overlooked. On World Sexual Health Day, she’s bringing her bold, eye-opening message to Franke Tobey Jones Senior University—proving that pleasure doesn’t retire, and desire doesn’t come with an expiration date.  Her engaging presentation will be followed by a question-and-answer session. Books will be available at the presentation for purchase and signing.

When:  September 4
Where:  Franke Tobey Jones, M.J.Wicks Wellness Center
Time:  2pm

“Bravo!,” says Karen (Kim) Carpenter, retired Physical Therapist.  “With more than 54 million post-menopausal women in the U.S. and 12 million in Canada between the ages of 50-75, it’s about time someone is addressing our intimacy needs!”

“Best Sex Ever After Menopause” is more than just a self-help guide; it’s a personal story of resilience and rediscovery. Carol shares her experiences navigating menopause in her 50s, twice battling breast cancer, and ultimately reclaiming intimacy and passion in her life and in her 40-year marriage in her 70s. This book is a call to action for the tens of millions of post-menopausal women who desire a more fulfilling and passionate life.

Packed with cutting-edge research and practical tools, Carol will be speaking about outdated myths surrounding sex and aging. It empowers women to rediscover confidence, intimacy, and sexual fulfillment in their later years.

“Best Sex Ever After Menopause” is a comprehensive guide divided into three empowering sections:

• The Brain: Our Most Important Sex Organ: Explores the crucial role the brain plays in sexuality, overall health, and effective communication.
• Remedies for Intimacy: Discusses both pharmaceutical and natural solutions for common concerns like vaginal dryness and decreased libido.
• Body Know-How and Intimacy Experiences: Offers practical advice, real-life stories, and actionable steps to enhance intimacy and pleasure.

“A wonderfully uplifting and insightful read,” comments S. Davy, an enthusiastic reader  “It feels like sitting down with a trusted friend—full of warmth, wisdom and practical advice. The thorough research and credible sources behind it shine through, making it valuable for a wide audience. I highly recommend it!”

“Best Sex Ever After Menopause” offers a fresh, positive perspective on senior sexual pleasure. Remz demonstrates that intimacy, like fine wine, can deepen and improve with age when nurtured with knowledge, communication, and self-care.

About the Author

Carol L. Remz, PhD Bio

Dr. Carol Remz is in her eighth decade of life, blessed to be a besotted grandmother, proud

mother, adoring mother-in-law, and cherished wife. Carol’s encore mission is to provide and promote empowering knowledge and skills for postmenopausal women who want to continue having sexual pleasure’s health and well-being benefits, universal sex positivity, and deeper intimacy and love.

Struggling with a diminishing libido issues after menopause in her mid-40s to early 50s, Carol began to believe that as a senior, sex didn’t matter, and lack of desire was an inevitable part of aging. Fortunately, this was not acceptable to her lusty, “I’ll do anything you want,” seven years-younger husband.

So, Carol went on a quest, seeking empowering knowledge and skills about sex and sexual pleasure’s benefits to our physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Eight years of research about health, the brain, medicinal plants, partner communication, attitude adjustments, in the-flesh application, some intimacy coaching, and learning to be mindful, all came together in her book, “Best Sex Ever After Menopause.”

“Learning is what keeps us going.” This belief has been the foundation of Carol’s working career as a teacher and reading specialist. She earned her BS in 1966 and MAT (Master of Arts in Teaching) in 1967 from Cornell University. She completed her formal education, earning her PhD in Educational Technology from Catholic University in 1977. For 30 years, her company GuideWare, Inc. designed and developed instructor-facilitated, video-based, and online training programs for Fortune 500 companies, federal and state agencies, private businesses, and international non-profits. Integral to every training program she developed were concrete ways to measure learning’s key goal: change for the better in what people do, achieve and feel.